You are planning to take that big step in your life. You plan to propose to your girlfriend. You are pretty sure she will accept, and want to surprise her with engagement ring at the ready. So, how can you be sure the ring is the right size? Read on for some suggestions.
You are planning to propose to your girlfriend and you are sure that she will accept you. You want to go that one step ahead to show your commitment and surprise her with a beautiful engagement ring. The operative word here is 'surprise'. You don't want to let her in on your plans until the right moment.
The catch is, how do you get the right fit? You don't want to give her a ring that will not go on. You also do not want to get a ring that falls of when she lets down her hand.
Here are a few tips on getting her ring size without her knowing about it. The options range from the straightforward to the sneaky.
The Easy Methods
Get the information from someone close to her.
Ask Her Family
If you have a good rapport with her family, go to them. Make sure the person you choose can keep a secret. See if they could help you in getting the right measurement.
Ask Her Friend
Ask her best friend. May be she has recently accompanied your girlfriend to a jewelers as she bought a ring. May be they have shared their ring finger measurements with each other, just in case. With friends, anything is possible.
The Stealth Methods
If her family can't help and her friend does not know the right size, what are you to do? Don't despair, there are still a few more avenues open to you.
Borrow One of Her Rings
If your girlfriend regularly wears different rings, try and borrow one without her knowing. Try to get a ring that she wears on her left hand ring finger. If that is not possible, note down on which finger she does wear the ring you have borrowed. Make sure that you take a ring that she will not miss for some time.
Measure One of Her Rings
You have tried to borrow one of her rings, but you have failed. Well you can settle for measuring her ring, instead of taking it with you. Pick the ring that is closest to the measurement you want. Make an impression of the ring on a wet cake of soap or a piece of modeling clay. Take this to the jeweler to get the right fit. Note down on which finger the ring is worn.
Measure Her Finger
While your girlfriend is sleeping, get a thick strip of paper and wrap it over her ring finger and note down the measurement. Keep in mind though, that this is not a very good way to get the right measurement.
With a Little Foresight..
Early on in the relationship, when you are sure that the bond is heading in a serious direction, take her to a costume jewellery shop and get her a nice ring for the correct finger. Tell her it is a symbol of your relationship. Be sure to note down the measurement when you find the right size. You don't want to end up asking if you can borrow this ring when you go shopping for the real one.
Things to Keep in Mind
Note down for which finger and which hand you have got the measurement. As every child knows, no two fingers are alike. The hand matters too. The dominant hand tends to have finger sizes that are a half size larger. Make sure you have noted down all the relevant details before you purchase the ring.
If you are buying a wide band ring, get a bigger size as that will be more comfortable to wear. Also keep in mind, some kinds of rings might not be resizable. If the rings have elaborate stone settings or intricate filigree work or if they are made of metals like Titanium, it will not be possible to resize it.
The engagement ring is a statement of your serious intent, your love. It is meant to be worn and shown off. So, take care that you get the most accurate measurement you can before you set out to buy it.
